A filter test
The Tell
Everyone gives one away eventually — the small, consistent thing that shows how they actually feel long before they say it out loud.
Twelve quick reads on how they behave around you. Answer honestly, not hopefully.
The 12 questions
- When you walk into a room they're already in, what happens?
- How fast do they usually text back?
- Do they remember small things you've mentioned in passing?
- In a group setting, where does their attention actually go?
- How do they act when someone else flirts with you?
- Do they make plans that are just the two of you?
- What's their eye contact like?
- Have they asked about your relationship status, directly or not?
- How do they react when you talk about your life or your friends?
- When plans between you two fall through, what happens?
- Do they find reasons to text or touch base over nothing?
- Gut check — if you asked them straight up, what's your honest guess?